An In-Depth Guide to Getting It Just Right

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I know that sometimes a man’s motivation for seeing an escort is simple: to switch off. To forget the weight of work, bills, responsibilities, and the constant noise of everyday life. What he craves is relief; an outlet for frustration, a release of tension. He wants to be pampered, catered to, and given a woman’s full, undivided attention. To lie back, relax, and let me work my magic.

In those moments, making it pleasurable for the woman isn’t always the priority — and that’s perfectly okay. You’ve paid for this time. You deserve to feel cared for. You deserve to take, to receive, to simply be.

But for the gentlemen with a little more time up their sleeve… For those who are aroused by mutual satisfaction, who take genuine pleasure in a woman’s pleasure, who feel something ignite when they know they’ve taken her to the edge and beyond... This one’s for you.

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The Do's

1. Do undress me.

   There is something deeply intimate about being slowly unwrapped. Many women love the quiet dominance of this simple act; the way it establishes presence, control, and intention. Teasing is your greatest tool when it comes to seduction. Suspense sharpens desire, and anticipation allows a woman’s mind to catch up with her body. Take your time. Remove my clothes slowly. Let the atmosphere thrum with temptation. Give me a few moments to want it before I have it, and you’ll feel the shift immediately. Anticipation, after all, is a pleasure in itself.

2. Do explore the lay of the land.

   There is urgent, carnal sex. And there is slow, sensual sex. Both have their place. If you’re aiming for the latter, resist the temptation to get lost immediately in what I affectionately call the Bermuda Triangle: breasts, bum, and pussy. Women have many erogenous zones beyond these familiar favourites. Take your time discovering them. Her neck. Behind her ear. Her waist. Her inner thighs. Caress, kiss, lick, linger. This isn’t about rushing her body, it’s about inviting her mind along for the journey. Foreplay is more than oral sex; it’s the slow burn that makes everything else unforgettable.

3. Do be vocal.

   Silence can be confusing. Sound is reassuring, grounding, and incredibly arousing. Let me hear your pleasure. Let me know when something feels good. Compliments matter. They create confidence, and confidence unlocks freedom. A woman who feels desired becomes uninhibited, and that benefits you more than you might realise.

4. Do tell me what you want.

   No two men are the same, and no woman is a mind reader. Communication is essential. Share your desires. Ask for what excites you. Curiosity and honesty create better experiences than guesswork ever could. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

   
   

5. Do understand her clitoris.

   Most women don’t climax from penetration alone. Clitoral stimulation is not optional, it’s essential. But if only it were that simple. The truth is, no two women are wired the same. We all respond to different pressures, rhythms, and points of contact. Some (like myself) prefer stimulation that’s clitoral-adjacent rather than too direct. Others respond best to firmer, more rhythmic strokes. So instead of trying to memorise a universal technique, focus on learning her clitoris. You do this in two ways: by asking, and by paying close attention to her responses. Patience is everything here. Never rush or overwhelm. This is a delicate, intensely sensitive area that rewards care and intention. The clitoris isn’t just for foreplay; it can be involved throughout. When vaginal and clitoral pleasure align, the result is extraordinary. So take the time to learn what she responds to… and remember it.

   
   

The Don'ts

1. Don't rush oral.

   Going down on a woman is all about finesse. Start slow, let every touch build the anticipation. Too much too soon can overwhelm rather than excite. Keep your lips soft, your tongue teasing, and your hands where they linger just long enough to make her shiver. Don’t bury your face or overwhelm her senses. Resist the urge to get carried away. This delicate area should never be approached with force or aggression. Keep your lips, chin, beard, and nose from burying themselves entirely; that's overkill. Less intensity, more intention. Take your time, read her body, and let her pleasure guide you… she’ll show you exactly how she wants it.
   

2. Don’t shave right before we meet.

   A tidy trim is appreciated. Fresh stubble is not. Shaving too close to the moment can make your lover feel like she's just tousled with a cactus. Treat her soft, supple skin with the reverence it deserves, and be careful not to decorate it with an irritating stubble-rash.

3. Don't be a Dyson with delicate areas. Lips, nipples, and sensitive skin bruise easily. Be gentle with the delicate areas of a woman. The strength of a man isn’t demonstrated through force, it’s shown through control.

4. Don’t be careless with your fingers.

   Poor technique can be genuinely uncomfortable or even painful, so slow, gentle, and attentive wins every time. Start with one finger, let it explore her curves, and follow the natural contours of her body. Curved, teasing motions work far better than jabbing or plunging. Lube is essential. Most importantly, watch her reactions, listen to the subtle cues, and let her guide you. Precision and patience turn simple touch into exquisite pleasure. Make it about her, and she’ll reward you generously.

5. Don't pressure me.

   Consent is non-negotiable. Expressing desires is welcome; pushing boundaries is not. Paying for time does not grant ownership. Trust that a woman knows her body, her limits, and her needs. She has lived in it long enough, so she is the expert in her body. Accept a “no” gracefully so you can enjoy everything that is on the menu.

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Now go forth, and deliver waves of pleasure to the deserving women of Perth.

Tell them Jasmine sent you.

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